Maslow’s growth hierarchy of needs operates like this:
physiological needs must be met before we can pursue
safety/belonging/self-esteem/self-actualization/
self-transcendence needs – the need to move beyond self
into ever-expanding circles of care/consciousness –
this is the transpersonal/spiritual level
but the Enlightenment emphasis on separation
of religion and state made Christianity captive
to the financial values of the middle class
which then used religion to justify those values –
so we got stuck
at the physiological/financial safety need level
the middle class version of Christian joy
then became the synthetic “happy-making”
of going on a vacation cruise
whereas true Christian joy
takes you from the limitations
of what you had no choice to be born into
to the freedom of creatively loving
those who are strangers to you
for the soul this is all or nothing –
either we see God’s image in all people
or we don’t see at all –
love of enemies makes no logical sense
but absolute soul sense –
we can no longer exclude anyone
sometimes the “enemy” is the one you are married to
but conjugal love could become highly regarded
and bring about psychological/social/cultural renewal
if Christian couples focused not on money
but on committed/harmonious love –
divine love would shine thru everything –
“Seek joy in God/peace within yourself/love in relationships –
seek to rest in the good, the true, and the beautiful –
this resting is then God within you
loving God all around you – this is authentic social renewal.”
– Richard Rohr
