Buddhist teaching states that even if you are fully enlightened
difficulty and pain are still inevitable – you will experience
aging/illness/death/
sorrow at losing what you love –
youth/health/life
you are also going to experience loneliness, a universal feeling –
and when we are not enlightened we naively believe
a sexual relationship will take away our loneliness
but unless there is heart and soul communication
sex just makes us more lonely
loneliness is different than solitude –
solitude can correct the tendency of codependents
to look outside themselves for their identity –
solitude provides us with an opportunity
to discover/know/embrace intimacy
with our true self
but we have to be careful – to not get sucked in
by our false self – our ego – an illusion because it exists
outside of God’s will/love/reality/life itself
still, if we are careful, we will find within
a secret/incommunicable/mystery/sanctuary
which the intrusions of self-assertion and violence
cannot penetrate – but on the other hand
if we are not careful, the ways of the world
can lure us out of our sanctuary
and slay us
but souls abandoned to God are protected
from their own ego because they take delight
in nothing but God – normal pursuits/activities
hold no delight – they want to be in solitude
alone with the Alone – the Only One
the Lonely One
who wants only to love and be loved
“God has created us for great things:
to love and be loved”
– Mother Teresa
